So I’ve watched the Gold Panel and wow, it was kinda mess. And I don’t know if it’s just me but Jensen seemed to be annoyed with Jared, which I think happened for the first time. Usually he would just be grumpy and then he would smile but yesterday he looked like he was running out of patience. He was not amused. But it looked like things got better at the main panel so I guess everything’s fine. Also, it felt like the latest drama affected them and now they feel the need to censor themselves :/

Are you really trying to spread Jared hate here? Not on my blog, thanks. I’m sorry but I find it mind-boggling that anyone who watches the panels regularly doesn’t see that at every single one, they try to balance each other out. Yeah, there were times that Jensen seemed annoyed. Hell, I’d say he was flat-out pissed more than once. He was as shady and grumpy as I’ve ever seen him. That wasn’t directed at Jared. Even when Jared spilled some of Jensen’s coffee, Jensen almost immediately laughed and shoved him back. No, looked to me like Jensen was irritated with certain elements of the fandom and what those people did over the last couple weeks. And when Jensen is in a bad mood like that, Jared works twice as hard to be over-the-top goofy and happy to distract both him and the audience. It’s why they make a great team. 

The only part of your ask that has any validity is that yes. They are definitely going to censor themselves from here on out. 

Here’s right after Jared said the word “asshole” too close to the mic: 

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They know why they have to censor themselves now too. They understand the root of the problem. When they told that routine joke about how Misha has a weak chin, this is Jared’s reaction:

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And after Jensen took the joke further, he immediately had to add a disclaimer so the same group wouldn’t come after them AGAIN:

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Look at his face. And I’ve already seen the SAME PEOPLE who started the smear campaign against them (which was fueled bc that group was already pissed when they said Misha wasn’t a third lead) say that this was directed at “bibros” who think they don’t love Misha. But see, no bibro I know believes they’re serious when they make jokes about Misha. It’s a small group of people from the other side that freaks out and hates on them when they do it. In fact, they freaked out so hard last time that they made sure to get Jared and Jensen a shit-ton of bad press and tried to equate a joke with them being “rape apologists”. Only one subset of people actually endangered their reputations and careers over the past couple weeks. So the mental gymnastics that bunch of wankers has to go through to make themselves feel better is astounding. 

Still think he is unaware or not upset about what happened at the last con? Look at his face and body language after Jared whispered a joke to him and fans started yelling at him to say it: 

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Yeah, good point. Because that’s what they thought too until people turned on them. His face after Jared says this says a lot too: 

Looks like Jensen is doubtful of the SPNFamily right about now. Can’t really blame him. 

At the very end, one wonderful fan asked them how they are and her genuine concern touched them deeply…

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I’m not sure what Jensen was about to say there but Jared stepped in and took some of the tension off by asking the fan how she is and then talking about how hard it is being away from their families. Jensen followed up with the same and then added that no matter how hard it is, they think the show and the cons are something that’s really special to them and they want to invest in that and protect it. That it won’t last forever and they know it. (Sorry- this is already so long so I won’t gif it. Here’s the link.) Jared finished the panel with this:

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They don’t have to be there doing this. The way people have been behaving lately at cons and the wank that gets stirred up every time they do a con? The hate they get for it? That has to stop or they’re going to decide that the downside of doing it far outweighs the good stuff. 

We can’t even trust you to accurately report what goes on at a con from Twitter anymore because all you put on here now is the J2 ship and tin hat stuff. You’re like the Fox News of J2. You ought to change your blog name to that.

Whaaaat? A J2 blog only reports on J2 stuff?? That’s an outrage of epic proportions. 

ASSFLASH NEWSHOLE: I’m not Walter Cronkite. I’m not Fox News or MSNBC or the Huffington Post. This blog has a very specific field of interest: J2 and Wincest.

I post things that I like on here because it’s my blog. Shocking, I know. How dare I? If you want the full story of everything being said at a Jared and Jensen panel, go to @sammyhale and read her con summaries. Or you could actually go on Twitter and look for yourself?  

As for it being overly shippy or tin hatty? It’s their own words taken directly from the con. Don’t shoot the messenger, friendo. 

You know you’ve done gifs of that jib hug about 50 times now? Gif what you want but it’s not that big a deal. Gif something new plese

Oh, I’m sorry. Did I gif that too much? Huh. I beg your pardon. I guess I better only do it about 20 or 30 more times. 

Just the basic full hug:

If we were watching this on a newsreel in the 1940′s:

Momento-style: 

If they were bats:

I know what you’re thinking- what if this was an old-timey flashback? What would that look like?:

If I had a nice camera and filmed this myself: 

AU where I’m “artsy”:

I honestly don’t know if you were being serious or not. If so, don’t tell me what to do. Or do tell me what to do by giving me suggestions on what you’d like to see giffed but be nice about it. If you weren’t being serious, then thank you. This was fun. 

nothingidputbeforeyou:

Oh, I can differentiate between the two. It’s super easy because I have a brother. He’s 5 years younger than me. We’re close but our relationship is completely sane, thanks. I spent pretty much this whole weekend with him and his gf and my husband and I can give you a whole bunch of ways we’re nothing like Sam and Dean. For instance, not once during this weekend did either of us gaze at the other like this: 

And as shocking as it may seem, we spent all that time together and yet rarely found the need to stand right on top of each other. We enjoy our personal space. I’m saying we don’t go in for this type of nonsense: 

We rode on an elevator and this didn’t happen:

Not once did he signal that I should look at his crotch like so:

Neither of us have broken up with a romantic partner for the other. 

Never has he been in trouble and I decided to kill myself to bargain with reapers. 

I did sell my soul for him once… oh no wait. That was Sam and Dean. 

See, my brother and I? We’re just normal. Ordinary, boring people. We’re NOT Sam and Dean. There is nothing normal about them or their relationship. 

So yeah. I have no trouble differentiating between fiction and reality. Seems like that might be a huge problem for you though. You obviously cannot tell the difference between the fantasy world and the one we live in. I hope you get help with that.

Haha- I completely forgot that my brother has a blog and follows me. He must have been pretty bored on his trip down to Florida yesterday because he checked my blog and saw this. I got a text from him last night which I’m sharing with his permission:

One thing you didn’t mention is that no one ever mistakes us for a couple like they do S&D. We don’t even look alike so it’s not like they just know we’re brother and sister. Maybe it’s because we don’t give off a “they want to bone” vibe like your Winchesters do. lol

Why do they stare at each other’s mouths all the time?? I am distantly aware that you have a mouth but the only time I stare is when you have something stuck in your teeth.  

You might not have sold your soul for me but remember that time when I was elementary school and Cheryl kept picking on me and you held her down and made her eat dirt? That was kind of the same thing. Not really. I still appreciate it tho. 

Thanks, bubba. I hope you don’t get carried off by mosquitoes or alligators on your camping trip. 

Oh, I can differentiate between the two. It’s super easy because I have a brother. He’s 5 years younger than me. We’re close but our relationship is completely sane, thanks. I spent pretty much this whole weekend with him and his gf and my husband and I can give you a whole bunch of ways we’re nothing like Sam and Dean. For instance, not once during this weekend did either of us gaze at the other like this: 

And as shocking as it may seem, we spent all that time together and yet rarely found the need to stand right on top of each other. We enjoy our personal space. I’m saying we don’t go in for this type of nonsense: 

We rode on an elevator and this didn’t happen:

Not once did he signal that I should look at his crotch like so:

Neither of us have broken up with a romantic partner for the other. 

Never has he been in trouble and I decided to kill myself to bargain with reapers. 

I did sell my soul for him once… oh no wait. That was Sam and Dean. 

See, my brother and I? We’re just normal. Ordinary, boring people. We’re NOT Sam and Dean. There is nothing normal about them or their relationship. 

So yeah. I have no trouble differentiating between fiction and reality. Seems like that might be a huge problem for you though. You obviously cannot tell the difference between the fantasy world and the one we live in. I hope you get help with that.

That fan did not turn Jensen’s face, Jensen turned Jensen’s face. I am so tired of fans berating and policing each other for the theoretical protection of people who are not even present and really can, in almost every way humanly possible, take care of themselves and hold their own.

Jensen turned his head back to her after she kissed him. Shortly after that while he’s yelling for Jared, she puts her hand on his cheek like she’s trying to turn his face back towards her and says “No”. It’s in my last gif and it’s very obvious in the video.

The purpose of that gifset was to show how Jensen was focused in on Jared through that whole thing. I did not berate or police anyone. In my tags, I mentioned that I don’t think that behavior is okay and I stand by that opinion. If you go to a convention and kiss Jensen without consent in front of a couple of thousand people, others are going to have opinions about it. I understand her being overwhelmed when she was so close to him but thousands of fans get that close to him during photo ops and don’t kiss him without his permission.

Jensen is a human being and a very nice one at that. No one should take advantage of his kindness by pushing his boundaries. Same goes for Jared. If you consider me saying that they should be treated with respect “berating and policing” the fandom, that’s your problem. 

Why do you have to put your gross wincest in the episode tags and the spoilers tag? rude.

Because bite me. That’s why. 

I was going to ignore you but this isn’t the first ask like this I’ve received so I’ll answer. 

I tag my captions with wincest, captions for the wincest impaired, the episode title, and if it’s a new one I tag spoilers. I don’t do that because I want it in the main tags to inflate my notes or whatever. I do it so that people who follow me don’t see spoilers if they have them blacklisted. If you don’t like it, I suggest you get xkit or tumblr savior and block or blacklist. 

that codependent shit isn’t healthy and you shouldn’t behappy about it. how can you celebrate dean trying to infect himself

Like this:

Seriously though- codependent behavior is unhealthy in real life but it’s a common device in fiction. Look at best-selling romance novels over the past 100 years and see how much of it is about people who can’t live without each other. 

Sam and Dean have been this way since the beginning. Did you start watching the show hoping they would change one of the basic components of both Sam and Dean’s characters? And now 11 years later, they’re actually somehow MORE codependent that ever?  That sounds like it must be very frustrating for you. Have a lovely day! 

(not hate) i understand the aspect of wincest in the show. but there’s also a very large chance that destiel can be made canon, but wincest can’t

I guess I will post this one since it’s the least offensive of the 5 hate anons that came into my ask box last night and this morning. And yes, it is hate. Putting “not hate” at the beginning of an ask like this doesn’t change your clear intention. You are coming onto the blog of a wincest shipper to attempt to start wank. 

Yes, after two episodes (Safe House and Red Meat) of nothing but Sam and Dean and their devotion to each other, the destiel shippers got an episode that had some good moments of Dean caring what happens to Cas. In canon, that’s just Dean refusing to ever give up on one of his closest friends and allies. That shouldn’t come as a surprise to anyone- Dean would never give up on someone he considers family. But apparently getting a few good moments really brings out the worst in some people in the destiel fandom and I got 5 asks from destiel shippers (not all of whom remembered to stay on anon) saying that their ship was going to be canon or that is already is canon.

Now let me just say, I usually delete and block people who pull this stuff but that’s a high volume of nonsense being directed at me and so I’m forced to say something. 

My blog is a safe place for people who enjoy wincest and want a laugh. I don’t post hate or wank about any ship on here. Many of my friends ship destiel and I did a captions edit involving unrequited destiel awhile ago for my close friend’s birthday because that’s what she likes. The fact that you all chose to target me anyway speaks volumes about a certain branch of the destiel fandom who want to attack and provoke anyone who doesn’t ship what they do. I don’t get that.

None of the major ships on Supernatural will ever be made canon. I promise you that. The people who run the show go back and forth giving little moments that will please this group of fans or that group of fans while still making sure to keep the majority of people watching- the casual, non-shipping viewers- happy. They’ve been doing this for years now and it’s not going to change. Also, shipping isn’t really supposed to be about forcing something into canon, especially if it flat-out doesn’t fit there. It’s supposed to be about enjoying the little moments between your otp. If you’re shipping something simply because you feel like you can somehow will it to become canon, you’re doing it wrong and you’re always going to end up sad and disappointed. 

So that’s it- everyone else who sent me asks like this one (all the others were much worse- I chose this one since I thought it would be the least upsetting to followers who hate wankage) is getting blocked right now. I will not post any more asks regarding this topic either so if anyone else wants to try to pick a fight with me, you’re wasting your time. 

Now back to our regularly scheduled program of wincest captions and J2 con gifs and things that make me laugh. (Yes- I am doing captions for this episode, probably two sets of them. For anyone who was wondering.<3)