I have seen talking about Jensen and Jared and “myth of personal space” I do not understand? Why is it myth? Is it because of standing close or touching or ? (Sorry for my bad English)

Your English sounds fine to me!

J2 and the Myth of Personal Space is a funny tag people use because of the things you mentioned plus so much more. There is a whole field of research called proxemics that deals with how we use the space around ourselves. We all tend to keep a bubble of personal space around ourselves. We have a tendency to move away from people who invade our personal space. Unless you’re talking about these two:

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I mean, really you can just look at how they choose to stand and sit. It’s always right next to each other, usually with at least some part of them touching- their arms, shoulders, or knees. 

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And then there’s the constant touching too.“There is a primal reassurance in being touched, in knowing that someone else, someone close to you, wants to be touching you. There is a bone-deep security that goes with the brush of a human hand, a silent, reflex-level affirmation that someone is near, that someone cares.” (That’s from a book by Jim Butcher and it reminds me of them.) 

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So you can see why some people feel like they make the idea of personal space into a myth. They certainly don’t need any.

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Btw- generally speaking, personal space is anywhere from 6-24 inches around you. Anything closer than 6 inches is called intimate space. But they clearly don’t even need that little gap in between them.

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And they’re always so casual about it too. Like it’s no big deal at all or they don’t even notice the’re doing it. They should really be a case study for those proxemics researchers. 

So a little while ago, you posted some gifs of Jensen “checking” Jared out. Do you have any of Jared “checking” Jensen out? Or even heart eyes at Jensen? Thanks!

Whaaaaat? I believe I definitively stated that 

Jensen

would

never.

And

neither

would

Jared.

Never

ever

happens.

Okay? 

Hope we understand each other now.

Oh, and before anyone asks, they never do double heart-eyes super intense staring at each other either. 

Just fyi. 

I like all your posts and you’re the only blog that my blog hates and refuses to reblog. ):

Oh no! Are you following me? If not, it’s possible that you might have accidentally blocked me. Or I might have accidentally blocked you? That was happening a lot for awhile when they had all the buttons way too close to each other. The block was right there with all the other stuff. If you want to send me another anon and tell me your blog name, I’ll check that. If it’s not that, then idk what’s going on. Typical tumblr being annoying would be my guess. 

Is it bad that I hate Sam is being tortured but I want protective Dean at the same time?

Yes, hello! You have reached the protective Dean hotline. I am here to help. No, that’s not bad at all. Please enjoy this fine selection of protective Dean moments to tide you over until the season premiere. 

How about when Sam was doing the trials and Dean just wanted to tuck him into bed and feed him chicken soup the whole time?

When Sam was going to close the gates of hell but Dean couldn’t live without him so he was all “haha no”:

Last season when Sam was supposed to take on the Mark because… um… they ran out of story ideas?:

When they were in jail and a guy looked at Sam crosswise:

How about in the cage while Cas was fighting Lucifer and Dean was busy stroking Sam’s silky tresses, apparently checking for hair-related injuries:

Same deal, different episode. Dean has his priorities straight- DON’T LET HIS HAIR BE INJURED. 

Or when Sam was all “SHOOT ME” to Metatron and Dean was like “WTF?? NO”

When Magnus tried to control Dean by hurting Sam (that worked out super well for him btw):

When Dean was threatening demons back in the good old days:

When Dean caught Gordon trying to shoot Sam and then bounced his head off a roof a little:

When Sam was hurt and Dean was a dog thereby giving him an excuse to make licking jokes later:

How about threatening to kill an entire family of scary creeps while he was tied to a chair:

Threatening Crowley is always fun and satisfying for Dean:

And finally, dying to bargain with a reaper for Sam AGAIN. Only on this show could that have happened multiple times:

And please remember that when asked by the Fangasm ladies to do a pose that reflected season 12, this is what Jared and Jensen came up with:

So prepare yourself. 

I hope you found this helpful and please get in touch again if you are ever in need of protective Dean assistance.